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This case troubles me.

Let me acknowledge first that I have never met Fr. Reed.

On the one hand, we have someone who was intimately involved in the removal of Bishop Stika and who likely made enemies as a result. He’s also a potential witness in a civil case against the diocese. On the other hand, I have been fooled before by charismatic and beloved priests whom I thought could never do anything terrible only to be proven wrong, so I cannot just dismiss all of this out of hand. I am trying to also keep in mind that the review board determined that the complaints were “credible” and “serious violations of the Code of Pastoral Conduct.” I am familiar with a couple members of the review board, and I find it hard to believe that these individuals would railroad Fr. Reed or retaliate against him.

But I still have questions.

1. The statement says Fr. Reed’s actions were “grave and unbecoming of the holy priesthood.” Yet parishioners are claiming this was only about giving a car ride to a minor or giving hugs. Does giving a car ride to a minor or hugs really rise to the level of “grave and unbecoming of the priesthood”? My gut tells me there must be more involved here than a car ride and hugs. Am I missing something?

2. Even though these actions were “grave and unbecoming,” he is being reassigned. Is it really responsible to reassign someone you claim has committed such serious misconduct? That’s how the church got in trouble in the first place. Either his actions were “grave and unbecoming” and therefore he should not be reassigned or they were not. I don’t get it.

My advice to the parishioners of SJN: refuse to put ANY money in the collection basket.

Every dollar you give is taxed and a percentage goes to the diocese. There is no way to ensure your money will stay in the parish and not be sent to the diocese.

Instead, drop a note saying you will not give until the diocese is more transparent and willing to answer more questions about all of this. They owe it to the parishioners to hold a town hall meeting where people can ask questions. If enough parishioners consistently refuse to give money, the diocese may be forced to respond—possibly. This would obviously require a great majority of parishioners refusing to give for the diocese to get the message and even then it is only a possibility, not a guarantee.

I’m not optimistic about learning more because transparency is sorely lacking in the church. For example, there was supposed to be an independent audit after all the allegations of financial mismanagement by Stika. Has anyone ever seen the results of the audit? They don’t feel a need to be transparent since people continue to give money.

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Judy Bentley's avatar

Thank you. Hoping Fr. Joe will find peace in the love of the people who believe in him🥲😥

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